Wow, wow, wow. Yes there have been many times that I have had a sudden shift in my perspective, illness, loss, death, births, milestones,new relationships,new jobs and the list goes on. The one that came to mind was my fathers death. He made made the decision to opt for euthanasia. That had to be one of the hardest moments in my life, to accept his decision and then to be there with him during the process. When he first told me of his decision, I was angry and felt that it was the cowards way out, by the end of the process I came to see it took him great courage to make that choice.